Your instincts are going to talk to you more often than you think and you need to listen. And don’t dismiss whatever your instincts and gut are telling you.
More often than not, our hearts become too focused on loving that our brain refuses to think properly. Our instincts know when something is off or not right and when it tells you to take a few steps back, do it. If your friends are not sold that you love this guy, they’re probably right.
Because when you love someone, you want to display him like a piece of meat.
What you should keep in mind is the fact that the men who quickly fall in love are also more likely to fall out of love quickly.A lot of people throw the word "love" around as if it doesn't mean anything. Yes, they have their own standards and these are to keep you from hurting yourself.In case you’ve forgotten, love carries with it heavy, important emotions and you should only say it when you mean it. So, when they say don’t tell this guy that you love him, then don’t.So if you’re not sure if you really mean it, it's better not to say it at all.You should focus on being friends or staying in a more casual dating stage than building a relationship because that’s probably something neither of you is truly prepared for. Being in love and being loved can be a great feeling, but it can also be pretty deceiving. Everything else that leads to love, as in caring about this guy and spending a lot of time with him.🙂 Well, if a man tells you he loves you on the first date, then it’s definitely too soon.However, even though it isn’t the first date, you might feel that you’re not ready to hear the words “I love you”.When you’re dating a guy and you’re totally into him and you strongly believe that you’re already in love with him, but you cannot talk about him with your friends publicly (as in on social media for everybody else to read), that’s a bad sign.You’re probably not as in love with him as you think.Was the man drunk when he told you that he loves you? Well, people under these conditions often say a lot of things that they shouldn’t.Alcohol and sex have a way of making people say things they didn’t think twice about.