If it isn't something you would do in front of your spouse, you shouldn't do it.If you would call these chat lines in front of your spouse, and he/she would be ok with it, by all means, do so. And staying in a marriage like that "for the kids" shows them the wrong marital dynamic..I know of many who have resented their parents for that. But, yes, I would view calling sex chat lines as cheating. But, yes, I would view calling sex chat lines as cheating.[/QUOTE] LOL- no worries . I do also agree that it would be wrong to do this if your spouse does not know/approve of it.To me there is no worse cheating, cheating is cheating, and in any way, shape or form would make me single again. They want you to fuck them and cum all over them before he gets home. You can wank while we talk and I'll pay with myself.(as in more of a definite way of cheating on your partner?
Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Hi All, Reading another thread on this forum prompted me to ask what you think of the following: If a married person uses sex chat lines as an 'extra' to sex with their spouse, would you consider to be cheating? a HD partner does this to avoid pestering their LD partner for sex.You (the general you, not you you) ARE interacting with sex chat operators, web cammers and IM's/private facebook messages/etc of that nature. I think it's 100x's worse than porn, unless it's interacting porn, then it's on the same page as the sex chat lines. You're not interacting with a Hustler or Playboy magazine or even videos on the internet.You (the general you, not you you) ARE interacting with sex chat operators, web cammers and IM's/private facebook messages/etc of that nature.I was reading another thread on here (about denying your partner sex, then masturbating), which make me think of this.I have seen tv channels advertising chat lines but not called them. I do also agree that it would be wrong to do this if your spouse does not know/approve of it.Although my wife and I have had lots of issues with sex in the past, we are currently having more sex than ever (because we are trying for a baby, but still! I know its of a similar nature, but do people think this is 'worse' than using porn?(as in more of a definite way of cheating on your partner? I view porn as a betrayal, more than anything....again, unless there is an understanding between the couple. The women listed below are amazingly realistic at acting like some dirty cheating slut who fantasise over men fucking them hard while their husbands are at work. I love to discuss the dirty things that get us both coming. To him, my friends and neighbours I'm a wholesome and decent wife and mother, but the reality is I'm a dirty little slut who fucks strangers. Give me a call and get your fantasies out in the open.That said, I can speak for myself on these things, but really, whether something is considered cheating or not is up to the individual(s) involved in the situation.Well for myself, anything involving another interacting person, in person or on the interwebz, and you hide it from your spouse/SO, then it's cheating. I have no problems with porn, don't care if my SO looks at it, masturbates to it, etc.