These feelings are normal for many people, and you may even want to play both roles at different times.
However, it can feel awkward and even a bit silly if you don’t know what to do, so here’s your primer!
If this is the case, then you simply need to explain it to him.
Instead, you should look for the ways to show submission to your partner that you are personally comfortable with.
Discussing it beforehand also helps you to determine what you’re both comfortable doing and not doing.
If you’re unsure how your partner will react, approach the subject by explaining exactly what it is you wish to do – being tied up, spanking, flogging, blindfolds, orgasm control, service or some other form of BDSM.
For example, it’s not that pain doesn’t hurt necessarily, but that you don’t experience it in a negative way.
Either way, your boyfriend or husband might need encouraging if you’re really interested in submitting.
In fact, if he does have interest in dominating you, he might not understand what you see in playing the counterpart.
Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.
If you are interested in having a man completely obsessed with you and Power exchange is a two-way street, which means you’ll have to talk to your man about it if you’re interested.