In my dating experience, I noticed how single women struggled to meet decent guys, particularly when they entered their 30s and were hoping to meet and marry a future mate to start a family, but seemed to waste precious time with the wrong ones.I spent a year interviewing relationship experts and singles for the book.Between swigs of her martini, she told me she was going to share the most important lesson she ever learned about men, women and dating: Men are idiots. If you can find a man who is less of an idiot than most, or a girl who is less crazy than most, then you’ve done well. They are typically an endless recounting of little details and interactions that swing the poor girl back and forth between thinking he’s into her and thinking he’s not. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – walking down the path of distrust or suspicion is a slippery slope. Check out these two articles that explore the topic of trust in relationships/dating: Does My Boyfriend Really Mean What He Says? Detailed answer here: Can a Girl Say I Love You First?Let me make this whole thing easy for you: If you can’t tell whether or not he likes you, your best bet is to strongly that he does and give him clear and obvious opportunities for him to make a move for you (assuming you’re into him and not just wondering for vanity’s sake.) He’s shy? If a guy doesn’t call, it means he’s just not that into me, right?But I have a confession to make: I don’t answer every question that comes into my inbox.I would love to be able to – I just don’t have the time. But on a positive note, I can offer the next best thing: A consolidated post all about answers to the most frequently asked dating tips and relationship problem advice questions that I see.There was a woman I was talking to at a bar a few weeks ago. Here’s a whole boatload of common relationship stuff. Here’s some of what I consider some of my best articles to answer the most common questions: Why Didn’t He Text Back? , How To Get Out of The Friend Zone With a Guy He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not Another major type of question is trying to figure out the guy’s feelings or where she stands with the guy she’s seeing. A lot of the time, I’ll get questions from women who feel in their heart that they want to make a move or move in a certain direction, but really don’t know if it’s the right move or not. And my very best on what makes him emotionally bond with you and fall in love: What Do Men Want In A Woman and How Do You Find Love Making a Long Distance Relationship Work Everything you need to know to have a successful long distance relationship here: Long Distance Relationship Advice (LDR Advice) Can a Girl Say ‘I Love You’ First?
Nicholas Aretakis (NA): LTK: What are some of the most common mistakes singles make when getting to know someone new?
NA: They make a decision too quickly, or get involved with someone emotionally and physically, before they know enough about this person.
Then they have regrets or embarrassment, or are stuck getting out of a bad relationship.
When I started writing Ask a Guy, I had no idea that it would take off like it has.
I am grateful to have such loyal readers who contribute great questions to me.